Adventurous couples playing mature Adult games
Welcome to 'The Pashing games' 2024
Out of the box [_]
How many couples do you know living outside the [_]?
What if a mature couple you know told you they're participating in something called
The Pashing Games?
curious?
Here's a curious factor: Believe it or not, but Google says that 30 to 60 percent of married couples will cheat at least once in the marriage. 74% of men and 68% of women admit they’d cheat if it was guaranteed they’d never get caught… And let’s not forget to count the ones that aren't admitting to anything and not even going near that survey.. However, you can keep reading on these statistics on Google..
Real life sprinkles just beyond the comfort zone..
At Curious Couples 40+ Melbourne, we strive to create an unforgettable experience for our guests, providing a truly out of the box platform for your total comfort and learning in a fun and engaging environment.
Welcome
A message from the creators
We are now looking for fantastic hosts to run some of the events.
We are now looking for fantastic hosts to run some of the events.
I’m Ed, a father of two adults now, separated from their mum and I was quite happy living the single dad life for six years till I met Mimi. We met in our early 40’s back in 2018 and just clicked. Still clicking happily today. We're a very honest couple and we like to talk things through, we've discovering that key, and being very open minded too. We do care and we do share and we do simply avoid getting involved in any dramas anywhere, this to remain the coolest pair. We're two fun loving people in touch with their nutty side, we have cl aassy side and a highly simple side, able to see richness and elegance in the most basic of things.. We believe we can keep clicking very well into eternity, as long as we’re always growing and sharing and evolving equally together etc, just belonging to one another in the most happiest way/s.
Of course, Mimi knows this because I’ve told her that; in future if she ever wanted to separate, belong to someone else or just move on to something else in life feeling happier than she can be with me, then she just has to tell me and I’ll be fine with it, honestly. To me, her ultimate in life happiness belongs to me, and I'm simply not going to make her happiness journey a difficulty. I know I’ll be just fine down the line, but anyway.. I also know that if I ever wanted to belong to/with someone else then Mimi would be devastated! So, to me it’s simply not an option to do that and it's very easy.
Hello, I’m Mimi and I’d like to welcome everyone to the group. I’m so happy with this project because I know it will help people just as much as it’s helped me to evolve past my views of jealousy, I'm a more relaxed and secure person in my relationship. I’m open to keep growing and exploring.
We are now looking for fantastic hosts to run some of the events.
We are now looking for fantastic hosts to run some of the events.
We are now looking for fantastic hosts to run some of the events.
You must be very open minded, honest, friendly, reliable/punctual, fun, caring and definitely 'not be a diff' (Someone that likes to make things difficult) to apply.
As much as we'd love to attend every event, we can't due to our busy life and the time focused on organizing everything behind the scenes to bring you these great events, so we really do need the help. All help is paid and training is provided.
Please note these events are running several times a week. All are by invitation only being held at an undisclosed location, and all couples are matched being based on 'a criteria' [please keep reading below for more information on the criteria].
We have a limit of 1000 couples being registered and the maximum time a couple can remain in this group is for 12 months. *Enrolling for 12 months guarantees that you'll be invited to at least three events in the year that you participated in 'The Pashing Games'. What a year!
You must be great people to be invited to these events. This ensures a great time for everyone involved in having a unique experience with no worries and no dramas and no taking advantage of some good old innocent fun. Fun like you probably had as a kid or as a teen or younger adult with a free bottle to spin? Anyone?
Hm.. Well, part of these games is playing a more sophisticated version of that (spin the bottle) with a couples wheel, so please;
*tell us in less than 200 words about you guys. Email us and then just wait patiently to be accepted, to be invited, or to go on the waiting list if this group is now full.
About the group
It's only for pleasant couples aged over 40 with an open-mind, sufficient emotional maturity, and a healthy sense of their own curiosity (or wanting to explore that) with a high level of integrity.
This group is all about having innocent fun socializing with other adventurous open minded people in a safe and respectful, private space. Not in public.
There will be an abundance of antiseptic fresh mint spray to go around, so everyone tastes the same :) and the place we book to hold these events is a very classy and awesome space for 25 like-minded couples to come and comfortably play (with no pressure to play) some pretty raunchy and hilarious little games. Mostly involving kissing someone blindfolded (or could be your partner at times.) for ten seconds on the lips. Every kiss gets rated out of ten. And at the end of the games is when the score cards get collected and tallied up/averaged out to reveal the couple/s with the highest score to win the trophy!
These games are for established couples already living in a good and let's say comfortable place. Yet, where one or both partners might be wondering at times if things are being unnecessarily a bit too comfortable in this space? Too vanilla? Why?
If this sounds like you (or someone you know) living at a ripe and gracefully maturing age now simply open to trying something new; then here's something a little weird for you, but colorful. Also daring but harmless, exciting but calming, and great for loosening things up.. Or great for adding a few sprinkles to your favorite vanilla day let's say..
Right?
These events are designed for all the naturally occurring curios types in life that just can't help to sometimes think about what? Without the need to cheat to dabble in a 'no-go' zone; not if you can just do it as a team or as a form of partners in crime?
Fine, but there’s really no crime! just an innocent way to play fun little games we play with other significant couples promoting a better understanding and bonding as a team spirit, and a transparency to shine light where there just might be a little 'taboo or fantasy’ lurking in the mind. Why?
Above all; it's to participate in the most fun couples group therapy sessions you'll probably ever find.
Therapy sessions? Yes! We know it's a big word to be using to identify the main focus of this group, playing fun little games. but..
We acknowledge that wherever/whenever we can find any traces of jealousy or hints of envy or competitive factors lurking around what's supposed to be a free standing solid relationship; there’s definitely some form of therapy at play here to help overcome this unnecessary issue that can eventually be poisoning.
*Jealousy/envy issues are based on a fear of losing something, or a need to control something, or some kind of a competitive factor being at play in the relationship, but anyway..
To us it just means a form of 'therapy' needed, so why not make it a fun and VERY EXCITING form of therapy now available to the coolest and most 'out there' couples alive, addressing this issue head on. If needed.
All this ‘therapy’ takes place in a private bar with a very positive outlook of things going around (everyone at these events has a supportive view of things and if you don’t have one then this is definitely not for you, not until you do).
Most people though will be just having a great time! Some there just for the fun, and some there focusing on their ‘therapy’ session at certain times because really *If you're a jealous person in life, you really don’t need to be. All you need is to relax and let yourself be free just like those other few people in life able to somehow live without the weight of posesing any jealousy.
To relax in this case means to socialize freely with a bunch of other nice people in a a relaxed environment, where you can be doing your ‘therapy’ exercises. Just observing things, smiling at things, controlling your emotions and communicating things or laughing at times at things and admitting things if necessary, and ultimately feeling your way out of the whole jealousy thing by way of desensitizing.
Can you imagine your partner right now taking one for the team? Blindfolded and pashing it out with someone from another team for ten seconds right in front of your eyes! Count to ten now and imagine it.. Or just let yourself imagine that a few times in the next few days and just see..
Now, imagine your partner removing their blindfolds, looking back at you then returning to you with a positive smile of accomplishment, probably with a good kissing score! And most likely with a lot of cheering going on in the background..
What's a pash, anyway?
Well, most will say that it's just another way to say ‘kissing someone passionately on the lips', or something like that..
Others might just say it's just something we can normally do with a few at a happy NYE party!
Some can say it's one beautiful form of a human art. Very abstract and sure, with so many variables and subtleties involved in kissing someone with many different types of lips and styles of kissing people have in life, yeah..
But really? A kiss can be something so simple and so complicated, so deep and shallow, so meaningful and meaningless all at the same time.. Depending on the twist one gives it, of course..
But note this; *At this event you may not get to or want to pash with anyone on the night. It's totally fine to just come and have fun watching others having fun..
Imagine a relationship being like a tree?
Any signs of jealousy would be the weeds or the vines of a poison ivy plant growing up and around the tree. Providing a kind of lush, green and pretty mean protective coating for the tree? This will ultimately be suffocating the tree..
*And speaking of trees; feel free to see your relationship as a tree. Maybe one that comes along one day to an event just like these! And like all the other trees (couples in life), we consist of three main components being the roots, the trunk, and the brunches with its leaves.
*Saying that; we know some trees in life are formed with more than just two people involved in the relationship, in the case of a polyamory tree.
In this group we do not discriminate with any multi person trees, if you are one then please feel free to come along to an event like these, but just everyone please, note; we are not here to fall in love with other trees.
*The main focus of this group is to enhance or to maintain the integrity of our own tree, sometimes just ruffling our leaves with other trees and that’s it.
About the events
The ‘Midweek laughs’. Aka 'midweek trivia' sessions run from Monday to Wednesday.
Day sessions are from 10:30am to 2:30pm. And evening sessions 7:30pm to 11:30pm.
Events run strictly for 4 hours with a fully functioning bar if needed, and if you're very welcome to get lunch or have dinner at these events. *Please bring a toothbrush/paste and drink responsibly*
the Criteria
Let's face it, when it comes down to kissing someone in real life, the real question just comes down to would you or wouldn't you?
At first sight, or at a second glance to be fair, having no strings attached anywhere, and assuming this person is just a normal and well adjusted neatly presented and well meaning participant in life; then it normally just comes down to a matter of a physical appearance thing. Right?
Saying that: When you do email us with your 200 words or less about you guys; please validate that at the end by giving yourself an honest rating out of 10.
Also tell us what age category you fall in; 40-60 or 60-80. [note that if one person is 65 and the other is 55 for example, then this couple falls into both categories. Also note that someone under 40, but over 30, can be accompanied to these events by their partner that's over 40.
And here's a guide for when it comes down to rating your physical appearance out of ten, so that everyone here can agree..
People that fall into the 1 to 3 category are below average in looks (BA). If you know Shrek and Fiona, this is a nice couple that would fall into this category, just to give you an idea of things.
People that are a 4 to 6 in life are the average looking person (AV) These are the ones we can see mostly walking on the street or getting around town making up about 50% of the general population.
People that are a 7 to 9 are the attractive people (A).
And people in their 10's are the very attractive (VA) people. Aka 'hot people', compared to some famous ones like Brad Pitt, Angelina, Beyonce, George Clooney, Shakira, Ricky Martin, Kim Kardashian, Johny Dep, Hemsworth, etc, there are so many 10’s in life. However, not that many in terms of how many we can see around, or even turn around to see them walking past us sometimes to think wow. These make about 1-3% of the population.
Please specify if you’re either (BA) (AV) (A) (VA) so that we can match you up accordingly.
Please also specify you are (L) for a Lesbian couple. (G) for a Gay couple, and (Q) for Queer or any odd couples you think you are. *Also add your coupon number if you have a coupon.
to Give someone the ultimate SURPRISE gift this year!
It's totally refundable if not accepted
Surprise yourself! or someone else with a once off chance to attend THE PASHING GAMES. They'll enjoy unforgettable memories that will last a lifetime.
Click on 'SHOP' and follow the prompts to purchase..
Our gift vouchers are sent directly to the address you provide us, using snail mail so please allow up to 14 days from the date of purchase. All instructions on what to do next are printed on the back of the voucher, it's that easy..
Please note a limit of one voucher per couple. There's a limit of 300 vouchers available in 2024. And to participate in multiple games then you need to register by email.